So you want some lovin’ and your guy has a “headache”? What to do now that the sexual tables are turned? Simply consider his needs. Is his disinterest rare? Maybe he is feeling the ill effects of too much alcohol or a stressful day; in that case, give him some space. If disinterest is prolonged, consider your sexual drought worth talking about and get to the bottom of the problem. If he claims everything is “fine,” look at his life. Loss of financial security or a perceived slip in social  status can depress your lover’s desire. A little communication, understanding, and ego stroking can go a long way to getting things back on track.

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