Have you ever been afraid to share your sexual fantasies with your partner? Fantasies are often erotic to us because of their taboo nature, but what if your partner found your sexual fantasy immoral or dirty? These are common worries, but keeping too much to yourself can make you feel too closed off and drain the erotic energy from your relationship. Many women need to have their minds engaged to feel sexually aroused. Other times, fantasies stem from our insecurities. Sex Therapist Laurie Watson writes of one man who had a burning desire to watch his wife have sex with another man. Therapy discovered that his fantasy came from his penis-size insecurity and financial worries.

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