Why do some things excite one person and not someone else? Not in the sense of a turn-on or a fetish that might be fun to incorporate into bedroom activities, but the seemingly random triggers, or even the ones that excite us at the same time we know they’re dangerous. Many people have an experience when they’re young that impacts their adult sexuality, such as a man who grew up in a rural area and would peek into outhouses to watch girls peeing when he was a boy and who as an adult pays sex workers for “golden showers.”

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