Michael Castleman, M.A., recently wrote an article claiming that it was fine with him if men use porn to help them become aroused before partner sex. In response to that article, a woman wrote to him asking, “What about the emotional harm it does to the wife? What about the low self-esteem it causes his wife to know her husband can only get aroused by looking at younger women and not her?” She also wondered why any woman would want to have sex with her husband in that situation. She said, “No harm in porn – I THINK NOT!” While Mr. Castleman acknowledged that many women feel this way, he maintained his position.

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