Fantasy love-making is a game of imagination and positive projection. To get the most from sexual fantasy, incorporate five methods for regenerating relationship fervor.  First, pretend your partner is perfect; feel free to idealize your lover, often times he/she will live up to the hype. Second, fantasize about your lover; give your imagination full reign. Next, dress the part; visual enticement excites a man, good grooming attracts a woman. Fourth, spin a sexual tale; take turns telling each other an on-going, erotic story meant to keep the sexual energy level high. Finally, try “72-hour sex” or sexual mindfulness, in which you build sexual excitement by scheduling a sexual date and enjoying the anticipation.

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