Can you find good relationship tips in a blog about kinky sex? Nancy Darling, Ph.D., recently ran across a blog called “The Pervocracy” and found many tips to promote good relationships. The first tip is to focus on what you want. In relationships or during sex, people tend to do what they think they’re supposed to do, not what they want to do. They hold themselves to unrealistic standards which makes them self-conscious. Pornography and romance novels don’t show what real sex and relationships look like. The author of the blog also points out that sex and romance don’t have to be spontaneous. Taking the time to plan an evening together doesn’t ruin it.

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