You’ve just had a huge argument with your partner and now you’re having amazing sex, declaring your love for each other.  This is good, isn’t it?  Actually, it’s not, according to Seth Meyers, Psy.D.  Make-up sex reinforces fighting and emotional drama:  if fighting leads to amazing sex, it makes sense to keep on fighting.  During an argument, negative emotions are expressed and make-up sex results when a couple leaps to the other end of the spectrum to end the negative feelings.  Often, after the make-up sex, the old feelings come back and the couple can feel sadder and more lonely than ever.

Read the full article here:  Make-Up Sex Hurts: Why And How To Avoid It