Why does great sex so often fade for couples who claim to love each other as much as ever?  Can we want what we already have?  Why does the transition to parenthood so often spell erotic disaster?  Does good intimacy always make for good sex?  Esther Perel, a couples and family therapist, takes on these tough questions in her book, Mating In Captivity.  When our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion, obstacles and anxieties arise.  Perel shows why the domestic realm can feel like a cage and opens the doors to erotic life and domesticity. She invites us to put the “X” back in sex.

Read the full article here: Mating In Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence