Men, would you like to set aside your usual “crude, lewd, and silly” approach to a romantic night with your lady? The plan: create a new self-image of yourself as a seriously sexually sensitive co-star of a romantic and erotic adventure. To get it right, you’ll need to plan ahead. Bring something special from your past as a couple into the present. Spend time to look your best. Get your partner’s views so you’re equal partners in your romantic adventure. Focus on your partner; make her feel at ease. Avoid too much alcohol, keep dinner portions light, and plan a special dessert. Slow dancing, gentle kissing, and lots of foreplay will help finish your adventure.
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