It’s very easy to blame our spouse when our interest in sex wanes. When the thought of having sex with our spouse causes an “Oh no” reaction instead of “Oh yes!,” we might need to take a look at ourselves. To turn our sex lives around, we have to take personal responsibility for what our sex lives have become. Great sex starts in the mind; how we think and feel about ourselves can improve the quality of our sex lives. Taking an honest look at our negative self-image, our busy schedule, our “sexpectations”, our inhibitions, and any anger or forgiveness issues we have, can be a first step to bringing back the sizzle.

Read the full article here: Re-Inventing Your Sexy For A Sizzling Marriage