Some couples believe their sex life will improve once they’re married and more relaxed with each other. If, however, both partners view sex differently, problems can arise. Communication is extremely important to enjoy really good sex. Really good sex has no guilt or shame attached, and is not just based on relief of tension or anxiety. It entails positive emotions such as love and emotional intimacy, and arouses feelings that last longer than the range of the moment. Really good sex is experienced at a deeper level than casual sex, and it’s mutually enjoyable, not a one-way street. Good sex and romantic intimacy don’t just come naturally.

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