A sexual frequency difference is a stubborn problem in couples pledged to monogamy. What do we do when the issue is sex and the problem is one wants it and the other doesn’t? Should we take turns, “okay, one time we won’t do it and one time we will?” Marital happiness occurs when we create a “couple’s mindset” and determine “who is us.” A Couple’s Mind cares about both parties needs over and above their own, seeking for ways that both people can be happy. Fear and selfishness are the opposite of having a Couple’s Mind. Care more about the marriage than just what you want, and consider how it impacts your spouse.

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