It’s natural that people feel frustrated when they’ve been asking for change in their sex life and haven’t been able to get their partner to act upon their requests. How can you make this happen? Looking at your own part might be a good start. Maybe you haven’t been fulfilling your partner’s needs either; sometimes this happens when we’re too embarrassed to try something our partner has asked us to do, like sometimes dressing neatly, or being more forthcoming in requesting sexual activity. It also helps to phrase things in a positive manner. Even though the meaning is essentially the same, making it sound less like criticism can really go a long way.
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