It’s not unusual for a sex therapist to hear, “Everything is perfect in our lives except the sex.” When “everything is perfect” in their lives, a couple expects great sex to happen almost automatically. There are two reasons why a great relationship is no guarantee of satisfying sex. The first is a “habituation” problem: we simply get used to our sex partner and sex with them becomes less exciting. The other problem is an “enmeshment” problem. A couple can become too close, or enmeshed, without realizing it, and lose their individuality to the relationship. How can sex be passionate when you can’t be yourself in your relationship?

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