Are you too busy critiquing your partner’s sexual effort instead of asking yourself how to be the considerate, engaged sexual partner you desire? The loss of sexual intimacy and satisfaction can often be attributed to the “blame game.”  Ask yourself what you really want from sex. Then, ask yourself if you’ve really tried to grant your partner’s wishes. How have your wants affected your partner emotionally:  Is he anxious, does she feel insecure, are you blaming instead of encouraging?  Finally, examine whether you are being sexually responsible. Try to prioritize sex with your partner and avoid comparing your relationship with unrealistic models.

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