When their relationship gets into trouble, partners suddenly find that they need to protect themselves from their greatest confidante. This is the person they’ve allowed themselves to be the most open with, the person who knows where they’re the most vulnerable. They feel unsafe, and they begin to see their partner as the bad guy, the one who needs to change so they can be happy together again. These tips may help them feel like a couple again: Talk to your partner, focus on your feelings, and don’t attack your partner. Also, acknowledge your contribution to the problem, realize that it really does take two to tango.

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